March 25, 2013
To Whom It May Concern; Is Whom Dead?
Of all the personal pronouns, 'whom' seems to be the one that...
...is most likely to disappear in the next few years.
When I review personal pronouns, (I, me, he, she, we, us, it, you, etc) I usually ask my students how often they use the personal pronoun 'whom'.
Their response is almost always a blank look that I interpret as something like "Whom? Who ever uses 'whom'?"
And I make a point of reminding them that I virtually never use 'whom'. In fact, for the most part, the only time I use it is as an introduction in a bland official letter. And even then I only use it, at most, once a year.
I also tell my students that if they use 'who' in place of 'whom' virtually no one will notice and even if they did notice, almost no one will care.
Here's a link from Atlantic Magazine which explores the dynamics behind the neglect, and likely demise of this particular word. http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2013/04/for-whom-the-bell-tolls/309266/.
Perhaps there's some justice in the death of 'whom', after all, if people don't even notice a word, perhaps it's time to move on.
There are plenty of new words out there, and some words, like 'you' do double duty (as in being both singular and plural). I think 'who' can competently manage the nuances traditionally held by 'whom'.
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Posted by mmorf at March 25, 2013 10:50 PM